Today is our one month anniversary of being married! I know we haven’t updated much on the site since then - but things have been a combination of exhausting and busy. This past weekend was 4th of July weekend and we took the time to catchup on sleep and get our finances together. Now that we’re married we have a joint checking account. That means lots of discussions and decisions about how to spend “our” money. I think we’re doing pretty well so far.. but I’m reading some books to try to get more couples-money-management advice.
We’ve paused our house hunting for now. I am too nervous that we’ll get all worked up over a house and then the baby will come the same day we close escrow - and that would just be too much. I’ve never owned a house - or had a baby. I think we should try not to achieve both on the same day. Plus we would really like to have a solid offer on the condo first. Knowing that we won’t have to carry two mortgages for any length of time would be good. We’re in the market for a good realtor to help us sell the condo too - so if you know of anyone, pass them along.
In other news, Rick has formally announced that he is leaving his job. I should let him blog about that but he is crazy busy with work now that he’s leaving in a few weeks. I think he is excited but also anxious about not working a full time job. He will have the whole month of August to take care of household and baby related stuff before Lennon is due (yes, I think we’ve settled on “Lennon” as the baby’s name) - but I hear that is enough to keep him super busy too. We have to buy and assemble the crib and other baby stuff. He has to get all our finances in order and rearrange the condo to make room for baby. Meanwhile, I have to work and he has to hear me gripe and complain about whatever it is an 8 month pregnant lady gripes and complains about.
We go to the doctor on Wednesday and we are hoping to do another ultrasound to see how the baby is coming along. He is very active and spends lots of time kicking me around. Hopefully we can get another cute profile shot to post online for all you “Lennon” fans. Generally, we know Lennon likes to go to the movies. Whenever we go, he gets excited over the loud noises and spends the whole two hours kicking up a storm. I also think the super-buttery popcorn and the extra pack of pregnancy-indulgence candy I get help get him worked up. We’re taking everyone’s advice though and trying to see as many movies as possible while we’re still mobile and only a couple instead of a threesome. This past weekend we saw “Hancock” - who didn’t? - and Wall-E.
Also this weekend, I turned 33. We had a little bowling party but most of my friends were in Vegas at the WSOP. If I wasn’t pregnant, you know I’d have been there. Sipping margaritas, playing craps, basking in the sun. Instead I bowled a “turkey” and won the first of five games (actually I won 2 of the 5 games). So take that! This pregnant lady ain’t so easy to beat!
About two months til the baby comes! As Rick said last night, he has now officially known me longer pregnant than not pregnant. Such a weird state of being! I’m looking forward to rectifying that once we catchup in December with my non-pregnancy time.. That is, of course, assuming we don’t end up with a 2nd 1% baby!